The four agreements© were published in 1997 and have sold about 9 million times. He has been on the New York Times bestseller list for nearly a decade. Everything we do is based on agreements we have made – agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are those we make with ourselves. If you are aware of this process, you have the opportunity to enter into new agreements with yourself. I`m on the third book and I understand the concepts because they explain much of the method I learned to create change. It`s not a manipulation, it`s that the result of a given situation changes depending on how it is perceived, how you feel and react. The consequences are always different in the case of positive interaction. We learn all kinds of negative behaviors. Again, I found that if you remove the story and find out, the lesson out there makes perfect sense. If you conduct negative behavior with love and forgive the person who makes you feel unjustly punished or abused, there is nothing left to react to, but in a positive way.
You remove everything else and all that`s left is the truth, and you can rewrite every trauma and how you will react to it in the future. They`re breaking the pattern. You will become an exception. Journalism helps. How did I feel? What for? Where did I feel like that at first? It takes a lot of soul search to happen yourself, and it takes you here and now to find a pattern of learned behavior. I deleted many of these grounds from my life to be happy. Here too, I insist on self-improvement. You have to want to change and be healthy enough to do the job. When I was talking to someone who showed the emotional vibration of the legend, less than at least anger (shame and lack of self-esteem.) I would recommend professional advice before trying self-improvement methods.
You must realize that no one can take everything away from you if you have the ability of love to be loved and to know love. I highly recommend these books. The book is based on a series of spiritual beliefs, held by Toltec`s seniors, to help readers transform their lives into a new experience of freedom, happiness and love.  According to the author, everything a man does is based on agreements he has made with himself, with others, with God and with life itself.  In these agreements, we can tell ourselves who they are, how to behave, what is possible and what is impossible.  Some agreements that create individuals may not cause problems, but there are certain arrangements that come from a place of fear and have the power to deplete emotional energy and reduce a person`s self-esteem.  The book states that these self-limiting agreements cause unnecessary suffering.  Ruiz also believes that to find personal joy, one must get rid of socially imposed and fear-based agreements that can unconsciously influence the individual`s behaviour and thinking.  Another fundamental premise of the book suggests that much of the suffering is created and that most people have the ability to transform themselves and the negative thoughts they have about the situations in their lives.  The author identifies the sources of unhappiness in life and proposes four beneficial agreements that can be concluded with oneself to improve their general state of well-being.